
Why the holidays can be a dangerous time for victims of intimate partner violence
London Jennifer Dunn, executive director of the London Abused Women’s Centre, and Jessie Rodger, executive director of Anova, are co-chairs on the London Coordinating Committee to End Woman Abuse. They're raising awareness about intimate partner violence risk factors associated with the holidays.(Michelle Both/CBC) An Anova's women's shelter is shown at 101 Wellington Rd. in London, Ont.(Travis Dolynny/CBC) Holidays can be a more difficult time for domestic abuse victims, say advocates citing risk factors Women's services, shelters report more intimate partner violence calls right after holidays WARNING: The article references intimate partner violence and abuse. The holiday season can be joyous and foster togetherness, but it can also be especially difficult for anyone experiencing intimate partner violence (IPV), advocates say. "There are several risk factors, and it's important that people know that just because it's the holidays doesn't mean that every single person is OK," said Jennifer Dunn, executive director of the London Abused Women's Centre. In fact, the holidays can be one of the most dangerous times for women in IPV situations, said Dunn. Several incidents have been reported recently in southwestern Ontario alone. On Monday, a man in St. Thomas was charged with assault following an incident involving his wife. An individual in Huron County has been charged with criminal harassment of their partner on Dec. 13. In London, Alton Farquharson, 56, is accused of killing his wife, Tasha Farquharson, 47, on Dec. 19, with police declaring it a femicide. The holidays mean more people are home, Dunn explained, with more time off work and fewer routines, which can create a sense of isolation. For abusive partners, she said, this can increase monitoring and control behaviours, and create more opportunities for violence. More family gatherings, increased expectations and financial pressures can also contribute to the risk of IPV, said Jessie Rodger, executive director of London-based Anova, Ontario's largest women's shelter. "There's a lot of money being spent, whether that's with gifts, or food or travel, and it's definitely a time where that can put strain on folks," Rodger said. "I also think it's a time where the expectation is that you're happy." Increased alcohol consumption around the holidays can also lead to difficult or dangerous moments, she added. Both the London Abused Women's Centre and Anova typically see an uptick in calls earlier in December, as women reach out for support before the holidays get underway, followed by another increase in January. One explanation for this is the pressure of the holidays, especially on mothers, to "make things special," even if they are having to suffer through difficult times, Rodger said. "It's kind of eerily quiet a little bit in these two weeks," she said. "And we always kind of worry and wonder what's happening in people's homes." Majority of IPV goes unreported Physical abuse can be part of IPV, but it can take other forms it can take, Dunn said. Broadly, IPV is about power and control, she said, and physical violence is just one of the ways...
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